Is Soulmate Suppose to Complete You?

A soulmate is not supposed to complete you. On the contrary he or she is supposed to inspire you to complete yourself.

This is a person who does not judge you for your shortcomings. This is someone who sees your ragged edges, someone who sees the parts of you that have weathered by life by love, who sees the battles that you fight and still chooses to stand beside you. A soulmate watches you confront your scars from the inside, always encouraging you to keep going.

A soulmate is not afraid of your growth. They do not feel the need to close you off, to protect you from becoming as big as you were always meant to be. They do not feel inadequate when they see you win, when they see something new within you glow. They will never vilify you for changing. For doing the things that make you genuinely happy, because they know that you are building yourself into someone you are proud of and is so beautiful to them.

A soulmate will challenge you to challenge yourself. A person who sees the potential that courses through your bones and lets you know exactly what you are capable of. They help you open your eyes to come to terms with the fact that you are powerful beyond measure. They see you in ways that you have never been able to see yourself and they are not afraid to inspire you until you finally see it too.

A soulmate is not supposed to complete you. They should inspire you to complete yourself. They should support your direction, who motivates and encourages you to stretch, to change, to reinvent yourself until you are happy. This is someone who loves you with so much conviction and so much heart that it is nearly impossible to doubt just how capable you are of becoming exactly who you have always wanted to be.

It’s really simple. Nothing that is meant for you will ever getaway. Love deeply and without the need to possess or own. Let beautiful connections pass through you without attachment, slam your heart into the people and the places, and the things that ignite something deep inside of your soul and I promise the night things will stay. You will never lose what is for you.